Homecoming. It’s the grand event that marks the return of school spirit, reunions, and a week of activities that every student looks forward to. But, if you’re reading this, you might be wondering: what exactly do you do at homecoming? Do you just show up, or is there some secret code to follow?

From tailgates to dances, floats to crowns, we’ll cover it all. Whether you're a freshman just figuring out what "homecoming" even means or a senior looking for fresh ways to make this year unforgettable, here's everything you need to know. Let's jump right into what homecoming truly is and break down all its magical (and sometimes slightly chaotic) pieces.

What Is Homecoming? 

Homecoming is typically a week-long event celebrated by high schools and colleges to welcome back former students. It’s a blend of sports, tradition, and school spirit. Unlike prom, homecoming happens earlier in the school year and is more inclusive. Everyone can participate, no exclusive invites required. You might see alumni returning, the football team gearing up for a big game, and the dance floor opening for everyone at the end of the week.

Homecoming doesn’t revolve around one specific event but several, and that’s where things get interesting.

The Homecoming Football Game

One of the most iconic parts of homecoming is the football game. Even if you don’t care much for sports, this game is usually a big deal. Here’s why:

- School Rivalries: Many schools schedule their fiercest rivals for the homecoming game, making it a must-watch event. The energy in the stands? Electric.

- Halftime Show: Whether it’s the marching band showing off their latest choreography or the homecoming court parading on the field, halftime is its own spectacle.

- Tailgating: Before the game even begins, there's tailgating. Think BBQ, face paint, and blasting school fight songs from every corner of the parking lot. Even if you're not a football fanatic, the food and atmosphere alone are worth showing up for.

Not a football person? No worries. You can still get involved by cheering, enjoying the social scene, and maybe even joining the halftime celebrations.

The Parade: Floats, Marching Bands, and More

Homecoming parades are a time-honored tradition where creativity and school pride collide. Student organizations, sports teams, and even local businesses design and decorate floats that roll down the main street in a festive display.

- Float Building: Many students get involved in designing these floats. There’s usually a lot of glitter, cardboard, and hours of work involved. Building floats is a great way to bond with classmates while unleashing your inner artist.

- Marching Bands: Imagine your school’s band decked out in matching uniforms, belting out the school anthem with synchronized steps. Whether or not you’re a band geek, the atmosphere is enough to get your heart pumping.

- Homecoming Court: Of course, the parade wouldn’t be complete without the homecoming court. More on them in a bit. But during the parade, expect to see them waving like royalty from the back of a convertible or, sometimes, on top of a bedazzled float.

The Homecoming Dance: What to Expect

Now, onto the homecoming dance, probably the event that most people get excited for. Think of it as a more laid-back version of prom, where tuxedos and long gowns aren’t required, but dancing shoes certainly are.

- The Outfits: Most students dress up for homecoming, but there’s no need to go over the top. Dresses, dress shirts, maybe a fun tie. That’s all you need. It’s more about style and comfort than being overly formal.

- The Music: A school gym filled with teens dancing to a mix of pop hits and classic anthems. Whether you’re the type to hit the dance floor or prefer chilling by the snack table, there’s something for everyone.

- The Vibe: Unlike prom, the vibe at homecoming is generally more relaxed. People are just there to have fun with friends, whether they’re going solo, with a date, or in a big group. No pressure, just a good time.

Homecoming Court and the Crowning Ceremony

The homecoming court is a significant part of the festivities, though it might seem a little mysterious at first. Schools typically nominate a set of students, usually juniors and seniors, who are voted on by the student body. The winners? They get the much-coveted title of Homecoming King and Queen.

- How it Works: Students nominate candidates, and after a school-wide vote, the top contenders become part of the court. The crowning ceremony, often held at halftime during the big football game or right before the dance, involves a bit of pomp and circumstance.

- Is It a Big Deal? For some, yes. For others, it’s just another part of the tradition. If you’re not on the court, you can still enjoy the pageantry and cheer for your friends.

Pep Rallies: Getting Hyped

Another staple of homecoming week is the pep rally. The entire school gathers to support the football team and show off their school spirit. Even if you’re not into cheerleading or team sports, it’s hard not to get swept up in the excitement.

- Cheers and Chants: You’ll hear the cheerleaders lead the crowd in chants designed to hype everyone up for the game. It’s loud, it’s boisterous, and it’s all about unity.

- Performances: Sometimes, you’ll see performances from the dance team or even some surprise acts from the faculty. It’s all about showcasing talent and celebrating school pride.

- Class Competitions: Some schools use the pep rally to pit classes against each other in friendly competitions. Think relay races, tug-of-war, or goofy skits. It’s all part of the fun and builds camaraderie among students.

Spirit Week: Themed Days for Extra Fun

Homecoming isn’t just about a game or a dance. It’s also about showing your school spirit every day of the week. That’s where Spirit Week comes in. Each day leading up to the big game and dance has a different theme, and students are encouraged to dress up accordingly.

- Wacky Themes: Pajama Day, Decades Day, Twin Day… schools get creative with Spirit Week themes, and the more you participate, the better.

- Building Hype: Spirit Week is designed to get everyone excited for the main events, but it’s also a fun way to express yourself and see just how weird your classmates can get. Don’t be afraid to go all out, it’s part of the fun.

Wrapping It All Up: Making Memories

By the end of homecoming week, you’ll be left with memories that last well beyond high school. Whether it’s the thrill of watching your team score the winning touchdown, dancing with your friends at the homecoming dance, or the silly class competitions during Spirit Week, homecoming offers something for everyone. It’s a time to connect with classmates, show school pride, and just let loose.

As you step into homecoming, the key is to dive in and enjoy every part of it. Even if you’re not into sports or big crowds, there’s a place for you during homecoming. Get involved, show up, and let the good times roll. You only get a few homecomings in your life, so make the most of them!